Agree 100% with everything you said. From the very beginning I have said that my hope is that people will now start to take all infectious diseases a little bit more serious, particularly influenza. Sure, most people survive it because its endemic, but some don't. We need to learn to be more careful about our interactions with people that may be susceptible to an infectious disease that you are carrying.I understood your response and was just fine with all that you have said.
I was not trying to draw attention or sympathy to my family. I was trying to make a point about the Covid-19 pandemic.
Enough people have died that we are all resorting to statistics. How many have died from C-19, how many have died with C-19, how many have died from something else because our medical system is overwhelmed with C-19, what is our infection rate, how many have caught C-19, and more facts.
The reality is that each of these 200,000 deaths are real people that have families that are affected by the C-19 pandemic. They are not statistics.
It makes it easier to accept these deaths because most are older and have other secondary medical issues.
If Covid-19 had the same affect as Infantile Paralysis (Polio) society would be more up in arms. A disease that killed youth and young adults in their prime is not as easy to rationalize and accept as one that preys on the old and infirm.
If we find that Covid-19 affects the body in other ways and kills younger people slowly ea. multiple sclerosis, juvenile diabetes, and some heart conditions, again society will become much more alarmed.
As a society we must all start thinking about what is good for all of us and stop being so self centered. Just because you can, doesn't make it right for you to run around without a a mask and not social distance.
At the same time, there is a balance between measuring cost of life objectively and measuring it emotionally. One is not preferable over the other, but when it is personal as in your case it skews towards the emotional. Crappy situation all the way around because there is no way to define the line between "a life" and "a statistic".
Last year I lost one of my best friends in a murder suicide. If someone had come to me and cited statistics about how (x) number of people each year die from that scenario i would have been really, really offended because it was personal to me. If I didn't know him and read about it in the news it probably wouldn't have and I would just view his death as a statistic. Which response would be the correct one? I suppose it just depends on the person.
