First let me make it clear. I've never been in foxhole with anyone. I have however known many relatives who have. Some made it out. Some made it out very injured. And some never made it out at all. One lost a lung. Another lived with an injured shoulder and arm. One was shot in the back (Afghanistan....not a true foxhole). One whose remains were just returned from WW II after he was identified with DNA to someone in my wife's family. And one who was in Iraq who came back physically unharmed, but the memories..... I get to live in the greatest country in the world because of them, and men and women like them.
All those who did whom I was able to talk with said the number one ingredient they wanted was to be in the trenches with was integrity (ie a guy they could trust). If the guys they were holed with was someone only thought of themselves, that is the number one thing that made them most uncomfortable...... and fearful. Agreed there were other things like courage, knowledge of the situation, proper training, and level headed thinking that factored in, but they absolutely needed to TRUST the integrity, and lack of selfishness, of their comrades. Their are several on the list that I question their trustworthiness......and Urban is one of those.
I might read him wrong. And if Trev chooses him, I will support the team, the program, and Urban until, or if, he proves that I can't. I would like to think there are others of his ability (and I don't question that he is a very good college coach), that beI agreecause of circumstances, and situations, don't have his track record, but could if given a chance. The Belichicks' the Meyers' and the Sabans' are at the top. Maybe they are there for a reason I don't subscribe to. I dunno. I want to win too........really, really, really badly. I hope I don't have compromise too far to get my wish.